Finding a Hair Stylist

The improper use and application of hair relaxers has damaged a lot of heads. Unfortunately, most of the damage cannot be repaired. The first thing to do to prevent this from happening is to find a good hair sytlist. Believe it or not, they are hard to come by. So many of us have entrusted our hair to stylists that are causing more harm than good to our hair. Really take the time “shop” for a stylist that suites your needs–someone who is devoted to maintaining the health of your hair, not just a cute hairstyle. Here is some information that I think you will find useful.

What Should I Look For In Someone To Put A Relaxer In My Hair?

You should be very careful when finding someone to put a relaxer in your hair. For something as important as choosing a stylist or someone to do major work on your house or car, we like to get first-hand references. If you can, find someone with hair you like and ask her where she gets her hair done. If she lets you touch her hair, touch it to make sure it’s healthy (please ask first!). Talk to the stylist before you make an appointment. Make sure she seems professional and knows what she’s doing. A bad perm is a horrible thing. You could end up with damaged hair, bald or even permanently disfigured. And, remember a perm is permanent. Mess one up and that hair is ruined permanently (until you cut it off).

Before she begins:

She should check the condition of your hair and scalp before she begins. If your hair is weak or your scalp has any cuts, scrapes or sores, she should not do the perm. A perm on already weak hair can cause your hair to break off. A perm on a scalp that is not healthy can be absorbed into the body and cause problems.

She should check for allergic reaction and test the perm on a strand of your hair

She should choose a perm appropriate for your type of hair. Not all relaxers are the same. Some are more reactive (stronger) than others. The stylist should consider- whether your hair has been relaxed before (touch up or retouch), whether your hair has never been relaxed (virgin), whether your hair is colored and whether your hair is fine or coarse.

She should protect your skin (and clothes) with a cape and or a towel

She should protect your scalp with a jelly or thick cream

Once she begins:

Once the stylist starts applying your perm, she should pay attention to your head and not talking on the phone, taking lunch breaks or attending to other clients. Applying a perm requires her complete attention. She should work quickly to avoid over-relaxing your hair and/or burning your skin.

Retouches should only be done on new growth. This is a common mistake people make when putting in perms at home. I know I used to. Do not keep relaxing the ends of your hair over and over again.

Your stylist should use a timer (and pay attention to the timer). It’s always better to leave the hair a little underdone than overdone. Even with the timer, she should check your hair continuously.

After she’s done:

She should rinse your hair very well with warm water.

She should wash your hair with a neutralizing shampoo. It’s important to use a shampoo with a lower pH to neutralize the high pH of the relaxer. The reason this is important is the pH of the neutralizing shampoo stops the reaction of the lye. Using a regular shampoo will allow your hair to continue to break down beyond the point where you want it to be.

She should rinse your hair again.

Before it is dried, she should deep condition the hair

She should handle your hair gently as she’s drying and styling it.

Source: www.treasuredlocks.com

Things that I also find useful in finding a stylist:

1. Are they honest? (i.e. do they quote you one price over the phone and charge you a higher price for the same service once they have finished your hair)

2. Do they use good time management skills? Do they overbook? You shouldn’t always be in the salon all day to get your hair done.

3. Do they use quality products?

4. Can they give good advice to help you maintain the health of your hair?

5. Do they care about the health of your hair? If your hair needs special care, do they address it?

6. Do they stay abreast of changing styles and techniques? Do they continue their education? They beauty industry is constantly changing.

7. Do they give you false hope? Please tell me in advance if you can’t do something! Don’t let me find out 3 hours later or after you have performed the service. On the other hand, remember keep the lines of communication open. Make sure you all are on the same page.

8. Are you pleased with your hair when you leave?

9. With everything said above, is customer service a priority? That is certainly lacking in many of our salons.

I hope you find this information useful. Many of us have different priorities when searching for a stylist, but a head full of healthy hair should be our first.