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I work two jobs, have four kids. I decided to take this school semester off and it's been nothing but hell since. I have a boyfriend whoms 29yrs of age--I'm 34. I've been nothing but good to him; I found a text from a female--he claimed to know nothing of and it was a prank call. I'm no fool. I've spoken to the beligerant woman (whom he cheated with on his ex-girlfriend with) I've had no peace of mind since the arguement and he and I have for the first time in our 11 months together gotten into a heated arguement and physical altercations. I vowed to never get that way or let anyone take me out of my character. He's a good person overall, but I have no trust in him anymore, no matter how sorry he claims to be. The female is harrassing me on the phone--he told her it's over and she feels it's not. I'm in pain--but I care alot for him, however I don't feel he's worth it. I've prayed to God to help me understand and find answers--I'm so frustrated home and at work I can't hear what I need to from God. I don't want to loose my faith and hope in the Lord because I know he's always there for me in the time of need. He's sticking to me like glue right now, but I don't want to feel I have to monitor him like a child--if that's the case I'll let him go. He wasn't physical with her this time (he says) it's only phone conversation so far. I've been looking in psalms for a passage so far I've found psalms 119:165 and 65. Can anyone give me advice or guide me with passages to read. I refused to let this woman or give take me from being the lady--I'am. I don' need my kids to see this neither.